Blue Valentine poster

Blue Valentine (2010)

Film · 1h 52m · Rated R

Drama, Romance

A couple's intimate history unfolds with melancholy, revealing the gritty, bleak erosion of their romance.

A full-attention watch at a measured pace. Emotionally it is devastating.

Streaming on Prime Video and Paramount+.

Blue Valentine parents guide

Nothing past what an R promises: moderate sex and nudity, and some violence.

Scare
Not scary
Jump scares
None noted
Gore
No gore
Violence
Some violence
Some fighting or peril.
Sex and nudity
Moderate
Moderate means a sex scene or nudity on screen, even brief, or sexual violence that is described or implied but never shown.
Language
Strong
Frequent strong profanity or slurs.

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What is Blue Valentine about?

Dean and Cindy live a quiet life in a modest neighborhood. They appear to have the world at their feet at the outset of the relationship. However, his lack of ambition and her retreat into self-absorption cause potentially irreversible cracks in their marriage.

Does it have a happy ending? (spoiler-safe)

Bittersweet. It earns its ending, but not everyone gets what they want.

Cast and crew

Directed byDerek Cianfrance
StarringRyan Gosling, Michelle Williams, John Doman, Mike Vogel, Ben Shenkman, Jen Jones

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