What is Boys Don't Cry about?
A young transgender man explores his gender identity and searches for love in rural Nebraska.
Does it have a happy ending? (spoiler-safe)
No. Brace yourself.
A young trans man's search for love and belonging in rural Nebraska becomes a bleak, intimate struggle.
Melancholy. A full-attention watch at a measured pace. Emotionally it is devastating. Based on true events.
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Boys Don't Cry parents guide
For an R, this one goes further: strong sex and nudity. Beyond that, brutal violence and frequent strong language.
- Scare
- Mildly scary
- A few tense or eerie moments.
- Jump scares
- None noted
- Gore
- Graphic gore
- Blood and wounds shown clearly.
- Violence
- Brutal violence
- Our top level for violence.
- Sex and nudity
- Strong
- Strong means explicit or repeated sex, extended nudity, or sexual assault shown on screen, attempted or completed, even partly off screen. Any one of these is enough.
- Language
- Strong
- Frequent strong profanity or slurs.
How we rate: an AI reads what is known about each title and tags it 0 to 3; we check the tags against a hand-rated set and correct them by hand when readers tell us. Estimates, not a scene-by-scene review. Spot a mistake? Tell us.
Three questions
- Is Boys Don't Cry scary?
- Only a little. Boys Don't Cry has a few tense moments, nothing that follows you to bed.
- How gory is Boys Don't Cry?
- Graphic gore and brutal violence. If graphic gore is a dealbreaker, skip it.
- What is Boys Don't Cry rated, and is it OK for kids?
- Rated R, and it earns it: strong sex and nudity, brutal violence, and frequent strong language. Not one for kids.
Cast and crew
Directed byKimberly Peirce
StarringHilary Swank, Chloë Sevigny, Peter Sarsgaard, Brendan Sexton III, Alicia Goranson, Alison Folland
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