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He's Just Not That Into You (2009)

Film · 2h 9m · Rated PG-13
ComedyDramaRomance

Multiple earnest relationships navigate measured romantic comedy with witty observations and an open-ended whimsical feel.

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Have you ever wondered why they said they would call but didn't, or why they don't want to sleep with you anymore, or why your relationship isn't going to the next level? Maybe they're just not that into you. Gigi wants a man who says he'll call her - and actually does - while Alex advises her to stop waiting by the phone. Beth wants a proposal after years of a committed relationship with her boyfriend, Neil, who is just fine with the way things are. Janine's not sure if she can trust her husband, Ben, who can't quite trust himself around Anna. Anna can't decide between the sexy married guy or her straightforward, no-sparks standby, Conor, who can't get over the fact that he can't have her. And Mary, who's found an entire network of loving, supportive men, just needs to find one who's straight.

How intense is He's Just Not That Into You?

Scarenot scary
Goreno gore
Violenceno real violence
Emotional weightsome weight

He's Just Not That Into You has no gore and no real violence. Emotionally it carries some weight. The pace is measured, and it is a date-night pick and a comfort watch. The humor runs dry. Rated PG-13.

What He's Just Not That Into You feels like

Tone
romanticfeel goodearnestwhimsical
Pace
Measured
Humor
dry and witty
Best for
Date nightComfort watch

Where to stream He's Just Not That Into You

Paramount+

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Is He's Just Not That Into You for you?

Is He's Just Not That Into You scary?

No. He's Just Not That Into You is not a scary watch (scare level 0 of 3).

Is He's Just Not That Into You gory or violent?

No gore (0 of 3) and no real violence (0 of 3). Squeamish viewers are fine here.

Is He's Just Not That Into You sad or heavy?

A little. There is some emotional weight (1 of 3), but it is not a heavy watch.

Is He's Just Not That Into You OK for kids?

It is rated PG-13. Intensity: scare 0, gore 0, violence 0, each out of 3. Your call for older kids.

How long is He's Just Not That Into You?

He's Just Not That Into You runs 2h 9m.

Where can I stream He's Just Not That Into You?

He's Just Not That Into You is streaming on Paramount+.

Does He's Just Not That Into You have a happy ending? spoiler-safe answer

It leaves things open rather than tying them up.

Cast and crew

DirectorKen Kwapis
StarringGinnifer Goodwin, Justin Long, Jennifer Aniston, Ben Affleck, Jennifer Connelly, Bradley Cooper

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