Her (2013)
A lonely writer finds intimate, heartwarming connection with an AI, exploring love's evolving nature in a measured, melancholy romance.
In the not so distant future, Theodore, a lonely writer, purchases a newly developed operating system designed to meet the user's every need. To Theodore's surprise, a romantic relationship develops between him and his operating system. This unconventional love story blends science fiction and romance in a sweet tale that explores the nature of love and the ways that technology isolates and connects us all.
How intense is Her?
Her has no gore and no real violence. Emotionally it is heavy. The pace is measured, and it is a full-attention watch. Rated R.
What Her feels like
- Tone
- intimatemelancholyheartwarming
- Pace
- Measured
- Best for
- Full attention
Where to stream Her
US availability via TMDB, last checked Sep 12, 2026. The app filters picks to the services you actually have.
Is Her for you?
Is Her scary?
No. Her is not a scary watch (scare level 0 of 3).
Is Her gory or violent?
No gore (0 of 3) and no real violence (0 of 3). Squeamish viewers are fine here.
Is Her sad or heavy?
It is emotionally heavy (2 of 3). Expect it to land.
Is Her OK for kids?
It is rated R, so it is made for adults. Intensity: scare 0, gore 0, violence 0, each out of 3.
How long is Her?
Her runs 2h 6m.
Where can I stream Her?
Her is streaming on Apple TV+.
Does Her have a happy ending? spoiler-safe answer
Bittersweet. It earns its ending, but not everyone gets what they want.
Cast and crew
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