An East German Stasi officer's surveillance of a playwright and his lover becomes a tense, melancholic reckoning.
Melancholy and suspenseful. A full-attention watch at a measured pace. Emotionally it is devastating.
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It stays inside its R, with moderate sex and nudity, and some violence.
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In 1984 East Berlin, dedicated Stasi officer Gerd Wiesler begins spying on a famous playwright and his actress-lover Christa-Maria. Wiesler becomes unexpectedly sympathetic to the couple, and faces conflicting loyalties when his superior takes a liking to Christa-Maria.
Bittersweet. It earns its ending, but not everyone gets what they want.
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