The Lives of Others (2006)
An East German Stasi officer's surveillance of a playwright and his lover becomes a tense, melancholic reckoning.
In 1984 East Berlin, dedicated Stasi officer Gerd Wiesler begins spying on a famous playwright and his actress-lover Christa-Maria. Wiesler becomes unexpectedly sympathetic to the couple, and faces conflicting loyalties when his superior takes a liking to Christa-Maria.
How intense is The Lives of Others?
The Lives of Others is not scary, with no gore and some violence. Emotionally it is devastating. The pace is measured, and it is a full-attention watch. Rated R.
What The Lives of Others feels like
- Tone
- tensegrittymelancholyatmosphericsuspenseful
- Pace
- Measured
- Best for
- Full attention
Where to stream The Lives of Others
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Is The Lives of Others scary?
No. The Lives of Others is not a scary watch (scare level 0 of 3).
Is The Lives of Others gory or violent?
No gore (0 of 3) and some violence (1 of 3). Squeamish viewers are fine here.
Is The Lives of Others sad or heavy?
Yes. Emotional weight 3 of 3. It hits hard; do not plan anything light after.
Is The Lives of Others OK for kids?
It is rated R, so it is made for adults. Intensity: scare 0, gore 0, violence 1, each out of 3.
How long is The Lives of Others?
The Lives of Others runs 2h 17m.
Where can I stream The Lives of Others?
The Lives of Others is not on a US subscription service right now (rent or buy may still be an option).
Does The Lives of Others have a happy ending? spoiler-safe answer
Bittersweet. It earns its ending, but not everyone gets what they want.
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