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The Perks of Being a Wallflower (2012)

Film · 1h 43m · Rated PG-13

Drama

A shy freshman navigates the pangs of first love and friendship with witty, melancholic earnestness.

Melancholy and earnest, with dry wit. A comfort watch at a measured pace. Emotionally it is heavy.

Streaming on Prime Video and Kanopy (free).

The Perks of Being a Wallflower parents guide

Strong sex and nudity, which is more than most PG-13 titles carry. Beyond that, some strong language and some violence.

Our estimate: 18 and up, higher than the PG-13 suggests, because of the sex and nudity.

Scare
Not scary
Jump scares
None noted
Gore
No gore
Violence
Some violence
Some fighting or peril.
Sex and nudity
Strong
Strong means explicit or repeated sex, extended nudity, or sexual assault shown on screen, attempted or completed, even partly off screen. Any one of these is enough.
Language
Moderate
Some strong profanity, a few f-words.

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What is The Perks of Being a Wallflower about?

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, 1991. High school freshman Charlie is a wallflower, always watching life from the sidelines, until two senior students, Sam and her stepbrother Patrick, become his mentors, helping him discover the joys of friendship, music and love.

Does it have a happy ending? (spoiler-safe)

Bittersweet. It earns its ending, but not everyone gets what they want.

Cast and crew

Directed byStephen Chbosky
StarringLogan Lerman, Emma Watson, Ezra Miller, Mae Whitman, Kate Walsh, Dylan McDermott

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