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This Is 40 (2012)

Film · 2h 14m · Rated R

Comedy

A witty, darkly comic look at a couple's intimate struggles as they face forty and a failing life.

Earnest, with dry wit. A date-night pick at a measured pace. Emotionally it is heavy.

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This Is 40 parents guide

It stays inside its R, with moderate sex and nudity, and no real violence.

Scare
Not scary
Jump scares
None noted
Gore
No gore
Violence
No real violence
Sex and nudity
Moderate
Moderate means a sex scene or nudity on screen, even brief, or sexual violence that is described or implied but never shown.
Language
Strong
Frequent strong profanity or slurs.

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What is This Is 40 about?

Pete and Debbie are both about to turn 40, their kids hate each other, both of their businesses are failing, they're on the verge of losing their house, and their relationship is threatening to fall apart.

Does it have a happy ending? (spoiler-safe)

Bittersweet. It earns its ending, but not everyone gets what they want.

Cast and crew

Directed byJudd Apatow
StarringPaul Rudd, Leslie Mann, John Lithgow, Megan Fox, Maude Apatow, Iris Apatow

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