
The Butler (2013)
A sharecropper's son becomes a White House butler, witnessing history with melancholy earnestness.
Cecil Gaines was a sharecropper's son who grew up in the 1920s as a domestic servant for the white family who casually destroyed his. Eventually striking out on his own, Cecil becomes a hotel valet of such efficiency and discreteness in the 1950s that he becomes a butler in the White House itself. There, Cecil would serve numerous US Presidents over the decades as a passive witness of history with the American Civil Rights Movement gaining momentum even as his family has troubles of its own. As his wife, Gloria, struggles with alcoholism and his defiant eldest son, Louis, strives for a just world, Cecil must decide whether he should take action in his own way.
How intense is The Butler?
The Butler has no gore and some violence. Emotionally it is devastating. The pace is measured, and it is a full-attention watch and a comfort watch. Rated PG-13.
What The Butler feels like
- Tone
- grittyearnestmelancholy
- Pace
- Measured
- Best for
- Full attentionComfort watch
- True story
- Yes, based on true events.
Where to stream The Butler
US availability via TMDB, last checked Sep 14, 2026. The app filters picks to the services you actually have.
Is The Butler for you?
Is The Butler scary?
No. The Butler is not a scary watch (scare level 0 of 3).
Is The Butler gory or violent?
No gore (0 of 3) and some violence (1 of 3). Squeamish viewers are fine here.
Is The Butler sad or heavy?
Yes. Emotional weight 3 of 3. It hits hard; do not plan anything light after.
Is The Butler OK for kids?
It is rated PG-13. Intensity: scare 0, gore 0, violence 1, each out of 3. Your call for older kids.
How long is The Butler?
The Butler runs 2h 12m.
Where can I stream The Butler?
The Butler is streaming on Plex.
Does The Butler have a happy ending? spoiler-safe answer
Bittersweet. It earns its ending, but not everyone gets what they want.
Cast and crew
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